PART TWO: Why Black Women Are Least Likely to Marry Outside Their Race


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  • Demair77
    Demair77  1 hours back

    They're (BW) least likely to marry outside their race because others don't want to marry them just like they don't want to marry us. They only want us (BW or BM) when it's something for them to gain. However we should never marry the people that has played a part in oppressing us for 100s of yrs. This panel is actually promoting the destruction of the Black family........

    • sheeniesheen
      sheeniesheen  6 hours back

      This had me in tears. So true. So real. People need to hear it, and really hear it.

      • jimmy youngblood
        jimmy youngblood  7 hours back

        should i say it? welfare

        • Gina Katrice
          Gina Katrice  12 hours back


          • jhasmine nychole
            jhasmine nychole  12 hours back

            I love Jeanie and Tamara so much.

            • Felicia Hill
              Felicia Hill  14 hours back

              Real men are so beautiful to me especially the darker complexion ...but I am in that forty category Lonnie is talking about and I said about a year ago its time to explore other options

              • Cake bae
                Cake bae  15 hours back

                Sista marry black men

                • james harm
                  james harm  15 hours back

                  This is pathetic, even for a show like this

                  • Lenora Xoxo
                    Lenora Xoxo  15 hours back

                    Even in your own race there are differences. It’s about being comfortable in your relationship and knowing your worth.

                    • Patrick Young
                      Patrick Young  15 hours back

                      DAMN! If she believes in WHITE JESUS she'll believe in anything. What is this on TVOne. Oh well, I guess I gotta stop supporting them. Big Girl is an WHITE SUPREMACIST AGENT! She was so desperate for a man she ran into the arms of "WHITE ZADDY" to save herself. Quit it with the CROCODILE TEARS! You ain't MY SISTA! YOU AIN'T NO SISTA PERIOD! ALL SKINFOLK AIN'T KINFOLK!

                      • James Beemer
                        James Beemer  15 hours back

                        Predjudice all over the place ☹️ . But that one a fraid of all men ? I was brought up with this predjudice . But I also served in the military . So so much for dads teaching . I've surved under alot of other cultures . So everyone is welcome 😊.

                        • clownshoes
                          clownshoes  19 hours back

                          Can we just agree that ALL women are stupid no matter what race they are? This is puke worthy.

                          • Drip Collins
                            Drip Collins  20 hours back

                            🙆🏼‍♂️black woman love me,Chinese woman we r good,russian woman good,white chicks check, ok iam all good😝

                            • Robert VanderMay
                              Robert VanderMay  21 hours back

                              I dated a black women in high school. She left me for the crap we got from black people. Including her parents, telling her she’s a princess and kids would be white washed. I get what racism is. I’m glad to hear love is love being preached when it comes to couples coming to from different cultures. Zaporra, where ever you are. Hope you’re life is great.

                              • VSQueen
                                VSQueen  22 hours back

                                I’m in a interracial relationship. Speed dating is how I got my boo thang and I love him so much!

                                • Ken Kenichi
                                  Ken Kenichi  22 hours back

                                  So basically the fat one has a beta male?

                                  • Bella Vita
                                    Bella Vita  24 hours back

                                    Yes leave these n iggas alone....

                                    • Erica JOY
                                      Erica JOY  1 days back

                                      The most positive episode I've ever seen ever. So happy for Loni. Thank God she has love in her life. Really happy for that.

                                      • Rah van Taaie
                                        Rah van Taaie  1 days back

                                        I also feel like that we as women are guarded anyways and Black women are misrepresented and disrespected by the world so its understandable. But it’s True in Life you have to take risks and Go out there

                                        • Robert Drake
                                          Robert Drake  1 days back

                                          Black men with money looking for a White Woman or Latina Ask Patrick Patterson He says you'll are Bulldogs Smh

                                          • Jason Strom
                                            Jason Strom  1 days back

                                            Why do people take dating advice from these morons?... Their views are tainted by their inability to think like a normal human being... They hang in Hollywood circles and all live in a fantasy world.... The best place a woman can get dating advice from is a man, just as a man would be wise to talk to a woman for similar reasons... These talk shows are ridiculous... And I don't get why they call this "The Real". These dumbasses are about as fake as they come. Well maybe aside from the fat one... She's kinda cool but the rest are just stupid.

                                            • ShaunDope
                                              ShaunDope  1 days back

                                              Did she just use mass incarceration🤦🏾‍♂️ There's still plenty of good black men out here💯

                                              • Lee Scott
                                                Lee Scott  1 days back

                                                “Because of mass incarceration...” huh?

                                                • Toni Richard
                                                  Toni Richard  1 days back

                                                  Loni gets on my nerves but she’s right about this dating thing. I’ll date any damned race at this point lol

                                                  • Jetsie Colon
                                                    Jetsie Colon  1 days back

                                                    I love you Ladies. ❤️

                                                    • BakoAztek92 Cheech
                                                      BakoAztek92 Cheech  2 days back

                                                      So I’m a Hispanic male and my girlfriend is white and she gets mean mugged all the time by other Hispanic women why is this ?

                                                      • ??
                                                        ??  14 hours back

                                                        Because women are narcissistic as hell

                                                    • Call her Jasmine
                                                      Call her Jasmine  2 days back

                                                      I don’t like Loni

                                                      • lkpeace911
                                                        lkpeace911  2 days back

                                                        What’s crazy is some black men would rather us die alone then date outside our race

                                                        • ??
                                                          ??  14 hours back

                                                          @lkpeace911 you sound like you got CONTROL issues 😂 you will never find a good black man with the mammy attitude.

                                                        • lkpeace911
                                                          lkpeace911  1 days back

                                                          Mr. J Butterworth there’s no “urge” to date outs of my race. There’s an “urge” to love and be loved CORRECTLY and as I get older, I realize it may not come in the package of a black man, so I have to be open to other races🤷🏾‍♀️

                                                        • Mr. J Butterworth
                                                          Mr. J Butterworth  2 days back

                                                          If I may ask, why the urge to date outside your race?

                                                      • Damilare Ola
                                                        Damilare Ola  2 days back

                                                        Loni always looking for sympathy, 🤦🏾‍♂️

                                                        • Mr. J Butterworth
                                                          Mr. J Butterworth  2 days back

                                                          So wait, she says it has to do with compatibility, but at the same time points out that black men are incarcerated and are not available...

                                                          Then it's no longer about compatibility but white supremacy including the white man you're are with that is complicit by default of our mass incarceration...

                                                          • Hal Jordan
                                                            Hal Jordan  2 days back

                                                            Young black women don't date outside their race because they know they will bear a black child no matter who is the father. It takes a black man to raise a black child in the USA due to the institutional racism perpetrated by the liberals in progressive cities not educating our children in the inner city : which leads to mass incarceration: which leads to being shot by cops or store keepers or gang members. In other words, a white or Asian dude will be extremely naive to the needs of a black child when they become teenagers dealing with the bigotry in our society

                                                          • Carole Rogers
                                                            Carole Rogers  2 days back

                                                            I love that Loni acknowledged the woman in the audience. This was sweet!

                                                            • Joel Koffi
                                                              Joel Koffi  2 days back

                                                              Love is love ❤️

                                                              • Michael Eastman
                                                                Michael Eastman  2 days back

                                                                Since no one else will say it. It's because many times men aren't attracted to Black women. Not because they aren't attractive, but because of their behavior. I have lived in the South most of my life and now St. Louis, so maybe its the type of black women I've been surrounded by. But most have been loud, obnoxious, overbearing, rude, and just down right terrible to be around. Obviously this isn't all black women, but if there are alternatives, that don't have many of these qualities (at least not so blatantly), then men will go that way.

                                                                This isn't to say that men are "afraid of a strong woman" as many single women will say. We just don't like to have to deal with all that stress or drama or obnoxious behavior. We don't want a girl that exhibits male behavior, we want a woman. (At least most straight men do).

                                                                • ??
                                                                  ??  14 hours back

                                                                  I'm a black Male so you see what we have to go through 😂😂😂 you hit the nail on the head. Men want a woman not a alpha bitch.

                                                              • Kjohn
                                                                Kjohn  2 days back

                                                                If your a black man 35+ watching this, y’all gotta do better smh.

                                                                • zeek TV
                                                                  zeek TV  3 days back

                                                                  She's so funny

                                                                  • zeek TV
                                                                    zeek TV  3 days back

                                                                    So the white man locks the black man up and that's the excuse why black women should forget about black men and date outside their race.... Lonnie you just stay on the other side baby we good

                                                                  • Star Gazer
                                                                    Star Gazer  3 days back

                                                                    When Loni was talking to the black lady audience was so touching and Ticha(sp?) was very keen to hear from Loni and was taking mental notes👍🏼🤗

                                                                    • P. Hopper
                                                                      P. Hopper  3 days back

                                                                      My Black Man is sooooooo loyal. So, I don't know if that is so different, Loni.

                                                                      • N C
                                                                        N C  3 days back

                                                                        Love is love. But, there are plenty of black men looking to date, love and marry black women. I married one, my friends married them and we are all professionals with advanced degrees as well as our spouses. So, this is not my reality or the people I know. Maybe, it should be just be, love who you love and don't make excuses.

                                                                        • Keviante Montezzo
                                                                          Keviante Montezzo  3 days back

                                                                          Tia or Tamara is just a corny person so of course she'd get with the corniest type of man

                                                                          • Its ASetUp
                                                                            Its ASetUp  3 days back

                                                                            Should stop looking for race and just look for love. Im white, whites also only make up 11% of the demographics in my county. If i only dated in my race, my choices would be small and many missed opportunities for love. Dated black women, from USA, Caribbean, and africa. Problem with African American women ive dated, its always about race. Cant recall a time dating the other two backgrounds, it even came up. Let it go and you may find someone that doesn’t look like you, that loves you. Love doesn’t care about the amount of melatonin in your skin. We are all human.

                                                                            • Tonice Mon’a
                                                                              Tonice Mon’a  3 days back

                                                                              Aww loni 🥰🥰🥰

                                                                              • Tonice Mon’a
                                                                                Tonice Mon’a  3 days back

                                                                                ‘Tisha u will find somebody. Just please don’t bring back that hairstyle with ur sides shaved lol

                                                                                • Nansya Raiva
                                                                                  Nansya Raiva  3 days back

                                                                                  Lmao "because of mass incarceration".. yeah has nothing to do with those dudes individual choices.

                                                                                • Dion West
                                                                                  Dion West  3 days back

                                                                                  What kills me is that people ignore basic logic.....majority of people have a hard time with the opposite sex because they are delusional with their attraction level and or they have bad character flaws. Women most definitely need to approach more if they want to find true happiness but first you have to make sure your life is in order

                                                                                  • John Is going to make you mad

                                                                                    Hey hey hey that fat lady is going to explode

                                                                                    • UAnonymous
                                                                                      UAnonymous  3 days back

                                                                                      That's just the way it is.